FAQ
Answers to common questions about working with me
Do you work online?
Yes. Most clients work with me online. In-person sessions are possible in Andalusia (Spain), depending on availability.
Who do you work with?
People of all genders. I’m especially experienced with women 50+ and midlife transitions, and I also work with couples.
What topics can we bring?
Desire changes, mismatched libido, menopause and sexuality, shame, communication, boundaries, opening a relationship, and rebuilding trust and connection.
What is somatic intimacy coaching?
Somatic means body-based. Most of us have spent our lives thinking about intimacy rather than feeling it — analyzing, managing, performing. Somatic coaching brings your body back into the conversation. We use breath, sensation, awareness, and movement (not touch, in online sessions) to access what your nervous system already knows. It’s faster than talking alone, and it sticks.
Is online intimacy coaching actually effective?
Yes — and I say that from experience, not optimism. The screen creates a kind of safe container. People tell me things online they haven’t said in years. The somatic work translates. The only thing Zoom can’t do is in-person retreat work, which is why I also offer those.
Is this therapy?
No. This is coaching. If your situation needs trauma therapy or clinical support, I’ll refer you to the right specialist.
What is the difference between coaching and therapy?
As your coach, I walk beside you for a focused period, working together to design and build your future. While therapists help uncover and process past traumas and mental health challenges, our coaching relationship focuses on where you are now and where you want to go.
How do we start?
Send me a message via the contact page and we’ll choose the best next step.
What if I’m not sure I’m ready?
That’s exactly what the free discovery call is for. You don’t need to be ready. You just need to be curious enough to show up for 20 minutes.
I feel a lot of shame around my sexuality, can I work with you?
Oh yes, I have been there. Shame about desire, about what you want, about what your body does or doesn’t do — it’s the thing nobody names out loud. You can name it here. I won’t flinch.
I am in peri/menopause, can I work with you?
Yes — and this is honestly where I feel most at home. Perimenopause and menopause change everything: desire, sensation, identity, how you relate to your body and your partner. Most of that goes undiscussed. We discuss it.
I’m postmenopausal — is it too late to reclaim my sexuality?
No. That question is the whole reason I do this work. The research is clear: sexual capacity doesn’t have an expiry date. What changes is the map. I help you read the new one.
Do you have professional supervision?
Absolutely. I work with an experienced supervisor who ensures I maintain the highest professional standards and continue growing in my practice.
What about your code of ethics?
As a professional member of the Association of Somatic and Integrative Sexologists (ASIS), I strictly adhere to their Code of Ethics and Ethical Code of Practice.
Will there be physical touch during sessions?
For standard coaching sessions, there is no physical touch between client and coach. The exception is the Sensualise your Life program for couples/throuples, which includes guided touch exercises, massage, and tantric practices - all with explicit consent and clear boundaries.
What does embodied mean?
Think of your body as your personal GPS for life. Being embodied means you are actually tuned in to what is happening in your body - not just living in your head. When we work together, we use this body awareness as a practical tool for deeper intimacy and better relationships.
How do payments work, especially for international clients?
I keep it simple and secure. You can pay via PayPal or Wise, making it easy to handle different currencies and international transfers. All prices are listed in EUR.
Will you contact me between sessions?
I respect your privacy and only send session reminders. If you are enrolled in a longer program, additional check-ins may be included as part of your package.
Is there a contract?
Yes, we will establish clear agreements through a formal contract once we decide to work together.
What is your cancellation policy?
I understand life happens and handle cancellations case-by-case with flexibility and understanding. Please respect the timings and if you can not come, send me a message 48 hours before.
Which languages do you offer coaching in?
I provide coaching services in English, French, and Dutch, allowing you to express yourself in the language you are most comfortable with.
Are you available for lectures, talks, or podcasts?
Hell yes! I am a woman on a mission and love sharing knowledge through various platforms.
Need more information?
Schedule a Free Discovery Call
As a professional member of ASIS, I adhere to their Code of Ethics.