Author·Intimacy Coach·Workshop Facilitator
I work with curious people.
Curious about desire, intimacy, and what's still possible in your body?
I'm an intimacy coach, and you're welcome here — exactly as you are. No shame, no pressure, no expectations.
I work with people of all ages, but I have a special place in my heart for women in the second half of life…
Women who are discovering, sometimes to their own surprise, that they're not done with pleasure. Not even close.
“Nathalie has helped me grow my inner safety and speak my unconscious truth out loud. An amazing journey.”
— Marianne
“An excellent, energetic and experienced facilitator who will safely hold space for your transformational work.”
— Yelli
“So beautifully brave and honest. I've learnt so much from her vulnerability and openness — truly inspiring.”
— Malak
“That evening did me a lot of good. I felt connection and it shifted my mood — from gloomy to happy.”
— Gerda
“I love your humour most — your optimism and good nature and strength and wisdom too.”
— Ben
About Me
Hello, I am Nathalie
I am a Belgian-born author and certified somatic intimacy coach, now living in the hills of Andalusia, Spain.
I work with people who feel stuck around intimacy, desire, and their relationship with their body. Not because they are broken — but because their body is asking for something different.
I help people reclaim desire, boundaries and sensual aliveness after big life transitions.
No forcing. No spiritual bypassing. We slow down, listen, and create space for what wants to be felt.
How I Can Support You
Whether through intimate conversation, the written word, or shared experience — there is a path for wherever you are.
Intimacy Coaching
One-on-one guidance for everyone who feels stuck around intimacy, desire, and their relationship with their body.
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Books and Writing
From Berlin Bar Stories to erotic poetry. Raw, honest narratives exploring trauma, transformation, and the landscapes of desire.
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Retreats and Workshops
Immersive experiences from writing retreats in Corfu to the transformative Claim Your Crone retreat in Andalusia.
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Claim Your Crone
October 11–18, 2026 · Albuñuelas, Andalusia, Spain
Seven days to meet the woman you became after menopause. And fully own her.
A luxurious retreat for postmenopausal women who are done shrinking. Neo-tantra, breathwork, writing, rituals, deep conversation — and absolutely no woo-woo. Maximum 10 women. From €2,610.
Sum Retreats
October 2026 · Hotel El Fuerte, Marbella, Spain
I'll be joining Sum Retreats as a guest speaker at their luxury retreat for women 40+ navigating perimenopause and menopause. A hosted lunch by the sea with real conversation — no fluff, no shame.
5-star beachfront accommodation, spa sessions, a private yacht experience, and space to simply be yourself again.
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Ready for a Reset?
Intimacy Reset (6 sessions)
Your desire didn't disappear. It went underground.
A 6-session 1:1 journey with body-oriented work, honest conversation, and gentle hypnosis — to reach what talking alone can't touch.
€495
Learn More →Couples Program
When did you last really want each other?
Body-oriented work and honest conversation for couples of all genders and relationship styles.
€1,800
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The Sensual Crone
Five Truths I Wish I'd Known About Pleasure in Midlife
Finished on my 60th birthday. Because why not.
The book nobody wrote for you when your body started changing and your desire didn't disappear — it just got weirder, wilder, and more interesting.
Five truths. Zero sugarcoating.
Letters from a Sensual Crone
Stories from the Sierra
I write the things most people only think. About desire, the body, and what comes next.
A few thoughtful letters a year. Zero spam.
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